Counselling & psychotherapy in Shoreham-by-Sea, Hove and online.
Compassionate, person-centred counselling with Isla O'Dwyer
Counselling & psychotherapy in Shoreham-by-Sea, Hove and online.
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Life can feel overwhelming at times, and you don't have to navigate it alone.
🌿 Welcome, I’m Isla
a qualified and insured psychotherapeutic counsellor and the founder of Care & Connect Counselling in Shoreham-by-Sea, West Sussex. I offer a calm, confidential and welcoming space where you can talk openly, feel heard and explore what you're experiencing without judgement.
I provide face-to-face counselling in Shoreham-by-Sea and Hove, as well as online counselling and telephone sessions.
Whether you're experiencing anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, a significant life change or struggling to make sense of difficult experiences, counselling can give you the space to explore what's happening and consider what you need.
Book a free consultation to talk about what you're looking for and whether counselling with me feels like the right fit for you.

You may be considering counselling because something in your life feels difficult, overwhelming or simply no longer feels manageable in the way it once did.
I offer counselling for a range of experiences, including:
You don't need to have everything figured out before starting counselling. You can simply come as you are, and we can work together to understand what you need.

My work is grounded in human connection, compassion, and respect for your individual experience. I believe that you are the expert on your own life and that a trusting therapeutic relationship is central to meaningful change.
Rather than following a one-size-fits-all approach, I use a blend of therapeutic approaches and tailor our work to suit you. This means:
My aim is to provide a warm, empathic and non-judgemental space where you can develop greater self-awareness, build on your strengths and explore new ways of navigating life's challenges.
I see you as a whole person, not a problem to be fixed.
I work in a trauma-informed way, which means I am mindful of how past experiences can shape the way we feel, think, and relate to others.
This approach focuses on creating a sense of safety, choice, and collaboration within therapy. We won’t rush into anything before you feel ready.
Where helpful, I may also offer gentle tools to support grounding and emotional regulation, as well as simple explanations of how trauma can affect the mind and body, helping things feel more understandable and manageable.
I provide an inclusive and affirming space for people of all gender identities, gender expressions, sexual orientations, and cultural backgrounds, as well as neurodivergent individuals, where you are welcome as you are.
Together, we can gently explore your experiences, build insight and self-awareness, and support meaningful change at your own pace.
This is your space to reconnect with yourself and move towards a more fulfilling way of living.

I offer face-to-face counselling in Shoreham-by-Sea, West Sussex, from a peaceful private garden office.
The space provides a calm and confidential environment away from the distractions of everyday life, where we can focus on what you need from counselling.
If you are looking for a counsellor in Shoreham-by-Sea or would like to find out more about counselling in the local area, you're welcome to get in touch for a free consultation.

I also offer face-to-face counselling in Hove from a private therapy room at New Road Psychotherapy on Church Road.
If Hove is more convenient for you, we can discuss your needs and whether face-to-face counselling there would be a good fit.

If you prefer to have counselling from the comfort and privacy of your own home, I also offer online counselling.
Online therapy can provide a flexible alternative to face-to-face sessions and may be particularly helpful if travelling to an appointment isn't convenient.
We can discuss whether online counselling is suitable for you during your free consultation.
Sessions are 50 minutes and my usual fee is £50 per session.
I also offer concessionary rates where the standard fee isn't affordable.
I understand that everyone's circumstances are different, so please get in touch if you'd like to discuss your options.
I offer different ways of working depending on your circumstances and what you would like from counselling.
This can include:
Please reach us at info@careandconnectcounselling.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.
What qualifications do you have?
I hold a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and a First Class Bachelor's Degree in Psychology, providing me with both professional counselling training and a strong academic understanding of human behaviour, mental health, and psychological theory.
I am a Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and work in accordance with the BACP Ethical Framework, which promotes safe, ethical, and professional practice.
As part of my commitment to providing high-quality counselling, I regularly undertake Continuing Professional Development (CPD) through training courses, workshops, and professional learning opportunities. This ensures my practice remains informed by current research, ethical guidance, and best practice, allowing me to offer the most effective support to my clients.
I believe that learning is an ongoing process, and I am committed to continually developing my knowledge and skills to provide a thoughtful, compassionate, and evidence-informed service.
What is your approach to counselling?
My approach is integrative, with a predominantly person-centred foundation. This means I believe that you are the expert on your own life, and that the therapeutic relationship is at the heart of meaningful change.
I provide a warm, empathic, and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard, accepted, and supported. Together, we will explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences at a pace that feels right for you.
While my work is grounded in person-centred values of empathy, authenticity, and unconditional positive regard, I also draw on a range of therapeutic approaches when they are appropriate for your individual needs. This allows me to tailor our work together rather than following a one-size-fits-all model.
My aim is to help you develop greater self-awareness, build on your strengths, and find ways to navigate life's challenges with increased confidence, resilience, and self-compassion.
Who can you provide therapy for?
I am currently taking on for referrals for young people (16+) and adults.
I have experience working with different neurodiversities, genders and sexualities and am a strong advocator for inclusivity.
What can I expect from therapy?
Our first session will give us a chance to meet and to get to know each other a little. We will work collaboratively to explore how we can work together and to get an understanding of what your hopes and expectations of therapy are. There is no obligation to continue working together after this first session.
I work in a way that focuses on you and what you need. In our sessions, you’ll guide the conversation, and we’ll move at a pace that feels comfortable for you. When helpful, I will share information or use different methods based on your unique experiences and needs. The aim is to empower you to find clarity, resilience and a greater sense of well being.
How much does it cost?
My usual going rate is £50 for 50 minute sessions. I do however offer a sliding scale for those where this does not feel possible. The best thing to do is to send me a message so that we can discuss your needs.
How long does counselling last?
Counselling sessions are 50 minutes long. I recommend weekly sessions (especially in the initial stages where we are building our relationship) however I understand this isn't possible for all and I shall do my best to cater to your needs. The length of our relationship will depend on your unique circumstances and needs. I have experience working both short term, long term and in between.
Are our sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a fundamental part of counselling. Everything you share will be treated with respect and kept confidential, except in the rare circumstances where there is a legal or ethical duty to share information, for example, if there is a serious risk of harm to you or someone else. This will be explained fully during our first session.
Do I need to prepare for counselling?
No preparation is required. Simply come as you are. Some people like to think about what they would like to discuss beforehand, while others prefer to see what comes up naturally during the session.
Is counselling right for me?
Counselling can be helpful if you're looking for a supportive, confidential space to explore your thoughts, emotions, or life experiences. If you're unsure whether it's the right fit, you're welcome to get in touch to discuss your needs before booking a session.
How do I book an appointment?
You can get in touch using the contact form on this website, by email, or by phone. I will respond as soon as possible to arrange an initial appointment and answer any questions you may have.
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